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It's never a great idea to date a coworker especially an 'underage' one.especially if the age difference is too great. Different states have different laws on relationships/ages and i don't happen to know the CA ones. I would do everything you can to discourage your coworker as it could be seen as sexual harassment along with anything else! Yeah schools don't put enough emphasis on this kind of thing, it happens to often, and even to my friend who was 15 ended up getting with an 18 year old and for some reason she ended up moving in with him and his parents. Not as big as a gap as your one but it's still twisted.
So this happened a while back but I just wanted to post a little rant. I was dating this guy for a few months who's 31. I knew he was a virgin, but I wasn't the type of person to judge someone for that. I know people can be virgins for many reasons.
Long story short we spend the night together and I think we're finally going to fuck. We're making out and he's acting really into it, so I take my clothes off, get on top and feel down there.. soft as a blob of jelly. I get instant ick and stop. He apologizes and says he thinks it's performance anxiety but I'm skeptical. Then he gets up to use the bathroom. While he's gone I decide to snoop in his phone. Bam, porn porn and more porn.
Now I see why he has no interest in sex with real women and is a virgin in his 30s. In his mind he's already fucking 10 different women a day.
DON'T enable the ageism of men. We all know that men are incredibly ageist. Even though older men are less valuable than younger men, men love to try and convince women of the opposite in order to coerce young women to spend their youth and fertility on subpar subfertile men. When I was active on dating apps at age 30, I was talking to / going on dates with men in their early 40s. I’m very mature for my age, and my ex husband was my age, so I figured a man ten years older than me would be more mature / have his shit together (yeah, the joke was on me there!).
This has made me believe that it's a giant red flag for porn addiction/just being low value in general if a man is a virgin into his 30s. All men who aren't asexual or gay want sex with women and they're finding ways to meet their sexual needs somehow. A healthy normal man seeks out a meaningful relationship with a real woman, not JUST for sex but sex will happen this way.
The fact that these virgin men have gone so long without seeking out a meaningful relationship with a real life woman almost always means that they're getting their sexual 'needs' met from porn.. years and years of furiously jerking it to porn. Even if it isn't their fault they're virgins, their dicks will be broken nonetheless which pretty much makes them instantly unattractive and worthless.
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Last summer I (23m) worked at a summer camp in California, and I met this girl (17f) who was absolutely the most perfect person I ever encountered. She's funny, nice, witty, smart and fun. The way she was with the kids totally melted my heart, she's so wholesome with everything she does. Also she's so gorgeous, she has the most beautiful eyes and flowing dark hair and a smile that is literally a symbol for pure happiness. It's a complicated story, I know her older brother (25), which is really protective of her. So that's something I'm not sure how I can deal with. I've been eating myself for the last 2 months about what I should do, I've never been so in love with someone, and we talked a few times and she told me she is looking for someone older who's ready to get married and she's looking for someone to spend her whole life with (she's a bit religious but so am I). We've been flirting during the summer and I kinda get a feeling that she likes me back, but I'm afraid I'm wrong. I'm not sure what to feel about the age difference, do I wait until she's 18 to say something? I've been thinking about it and if she feels emotionally ready for a long term relationships is it that meaningful? I mean when I'm 30 she's 24 and then does it really make a difference? Do I say something now and risk my friendship with her and her brother? Or do I wait? Or do I just let it go? I'm so lost in the whole situation. Edit: we live in a country where we start college very late (I'm not in college yet) and the country's very small, so even when we start college we're an hour away from each other tops. Also a lot of religious women get married at 18-20.
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